What I Find Attractive in a Man

It’s not what you think.

It’s not the flash. Not the flex. Not the loudest guy in the room.

It’s in the quiet confidence. The calm tone. The man who doesn’t need to prove anything — because he is something.

I notice presence first.

How a man breathes. How he listens. How he looks at me — not to consume, but to connect.

If you can hold eye contact without breaking, without performing, just being… you already have my attention.

I love men who are kind without being weak.

Who are assertive without being arrogant.

Who speak with purpose, not volume.

I like the kind of man who can lead… but lets go when it’s time to feel.

The kind who knows how to touch slowly, ask deeply, laugh fully, and show up with honesty — not just desire.

You don’t need to be perfect.

You just need to be real.